heiress on the outside. warrior princess on the inside.: grown-up me.

Monday, June 15

GROWING UP. :p

to grow up doesn't mean to stop caring, it means i can do it silently
to grow up is not to cut myself off, it is the realization that i don't control another
to grow up is not to enable but to allow learning from all the consequences
to grow up is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not always in my hands
to grow up is not to try to change or blame another, i can only change myself
to grow up is not to care for but to care about
to grow up is not to judge, but to allow others to become human beings
to grow up is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes but to allow others to affect their own outcomes
to grow up is not to nag, scold or argue, but to search out my own shortcomings and correct them
to grow up is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes and to cherish the moment
to grow up is not to criticize and regulate anyone but to try to become what i dream i could be
to grow up is not to regret the past but to grow and live for today. :)

heiress on the outside. warrior princess on the inside.